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nurture ideasWhy isn’t anyone doing anything with my ideas???

I’m hearing this lament over and over lately in the groups where I’m working.

My question back at ya is: what are YOU doing with YOUR idea?

Are you making it so?

 

Did you toss it out there, expecting others to happily and eagerly adopt it and start working on it immediately?

Or…

Did you chat it up with a few people to test their response? And when their reaction wasn’t unfavorable, did you expect them to start acting on it right away?     

Or…

Are you passionate enough about your idea to retain ownership of it and actively work it yourself?

Ideas are different from orders and other top-down driven directives or instructions. I see executing against a boss’ command as not being voluntary whereas moving forward with someone’s idea is.

Ideas are thoughts, suggestions, or concepts, which, because they aren’t concrete, make them fragile.

So especially so when they’re tossed out with the unspoken expectation that someone other than the idea-generator will be responsible for turning the concept into reality.

Everyone is in love with their own idea. ~Carl Jung

If you find yourself bemoaning the fact that you don’t see anyone implementing your ideas, consider these three points.

Beware the unspoken expectation

 

Don’t quietly assume that people will automatically take action on your idea. If it’s truly an idea, people have the freedom to accept or reject it. Even if they like or accept it, that’s no guarantee that they’ll move on it. If your expectations include action, make those intentions known. Talk it out. Clarify. Secure commitment.

Words do two major things: They provide food for the mind and create light for understanding and awareness. ~Jim Rohn

Be a passionate grower

Plant your idea like a good gardener would. Assure the conditions are right. Provide nurturing. Check in periodically. Good ideas can be contagious, especially those where people can clearly see how the outcome makes a positive difference. People may even want to claim your idea as their own!

Be the one who nurtures and builds. ~Marvin J. Ashton

Own it

If your idea is meaningful and you’re invested in turning the thought into something tangible, make it so yourself. Your heartfelt commitment can serve as a magnet to pull others into your good idea.

And that’s when the real magic happens.

A pile of rocks ceases to be a rock when somebody contemplates it with the idea of a cathedral in mind. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupery

 

 

A version of this post first appeared on the Lead Change Group blog—the home for instigators fomenting a character-based leadership revolution…check it out!

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