A parable to make us ponder:
A pencil-maker told the pencil five important lessons before putting it in the box:
1) Everything you do will always leave a mark.
2) You can always correct the mistakes you make.
3) What is important is what is inside of you.
4) In life, you will undergo painful sharpening which will only make you better.
5) To be the best pencil, you must allow yourself to be held and guided by the hand that holds yours.
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We all need to be constantly sharpened.
This parable encourages us to remember that we are special and have unique talents and abilities.
Only you can fulfill the purpose which you were born to accomplish. Never allow yourself to get discouraged and think that your life is insignificant and cannot be changed.
Like the pencil, always remember that the most important part of who you are is what’s inside of you.
More thoughts on leaving marks
It is the individual who knows how little they know about themselves who stands the most reasonable chance of finding out something about themselves before they die. ~S.I Hayakawa
Unless we can bear self-mortification, we shall not be able to carry self-examination to the necessary painful lengths. Without humility there can be no illuminating self-knowledge. ~Arnold Toynbee
Men go abroad to wonder at the heights of mountains, at the huge waves of the sea, at the long courses of the rivers, at the vast compass of the ocean, at the circular motions of the stars, and they pass by themselves without wondering. ~St. Augustine
We only become what we are by the radical and deep-seated refusal of that which others have made of us. ~Jean-Paul Sartre
Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves. ~Henry David Thoreau
The very purpose of existence is to reconcile the glowing opinion we hold of ourselves with the appalling things that other people think about us. ~Quentin Crisp
There’s a lot of fear connected with the inner journey because it penetrates our illusions. Taking the inner journey will lead you into some very shadowy places. You’re going to learn things about yourself that you’ll wish you didn’t know. There are monsters in there—monsters you can’t control—but trying to keep them hidden will only give them greater power. ~Parker Palmer
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Hi Jane,
Really good post. To the point and the parable is timeless. Thanks for the reminder in such an elegant fashion. ” . . . the most important pat of who you are is what’s inside of you.” Touchingly true.
Wendy – thanks so much for your kind words and for sharing!
Jane,
So many leaders forget #1. They neglect to realize that they are on stage, constantly. What they say and do is being processed and analyzed by those they lead. Thanks for this reminder.
Beth A Miller, CMC and Talent Strategist
Beth — great point about the spotlight being on leaders at all times. They get to choose if it’s a positive or a negative light. Thanks much for sharing!